In Pursuit of the American Dream

Mission and Values created at Date With Destiny

Mission - The purpose of my life is to connect with people and enrich their lives by being a leader and an awesome example of the unlimited potential within us all.

 

New Primary Question – How can I use this to enrich my life and the lives of others in a powerful, positive, passionate way right now/

 

Power Virtues – Determination, Love, Confidence, Centeredness

 

New Moving Towards Values

1. Love  / Connection – I feel love and connection….

  • Anytime I am loving
  • Anytime I’m with people I love
  • Anytime I notice the love in others
  • Anytime I love who I am
  • Anytime I give love to others
  • Anytime I meet someone new
  • Anytime I spend time with my peers
  • Anytime I am listening
  • Anytime I am sharing
  • Anytime I make people feel special
  • Anytime I am super nice to people
  • Anytime I am teaching

 

2. Health / Vitality – I feel Health and vitality…..

  • Anytime I exercise
  • Anytime I breath deeply
  • Anytime I eat healthy
  • Anytime I recharge
  • Anytime I talk about health with others
  • Anytime I demand energy from myself

 

3. Happiness / Fun – I feel Happy and- Fun loving….

  • Anytime I think of my blessings
  • Anytime I am playful
  • Anytime I help others
  • Anytime I focus on something I’m passionate about
  • Anytime I exercise
  • Anytime I spend time with people I care about
  • Anytime I am working on my goals
  • Anytime I build something

 

4. Intelligent – I feel intelligent….

  • Anytime I learn something
  • Anytime I search for answers
  • Anytime I focused and centered
  • Anytime I am teaching others
  • Anytime I question myself before making big decisions

 

5. Passion – I feel passion….

  • Anytime I am outrageous
  • Anytime I get focused on a great idea or project
  • Anytime I am influencing others
  • Anytime I have intimacy
  • Anytime I care deeply about something

 

6. Gratitude – I feel grateful….

  • Anytime I think of the blessings in my life
  • Anytime I make a new friend
  • Anytime I meet a new person
  • Anytime I learn something
  • Anytime I make a difference

 

7. Success – I feel successful….

  • Anytime I think about my blessings
  • Anytime I reach a goal
  • Anytime I think about my accomplishments
  • Anytime I am moving towards a new goal

 

8. Contribution – I feel like I am contributing….

  • Anytime I focus on the contributions I have made
  • Anytime I coach someone
  • Anytime I do a good deed
  • Anytime I give all I can to others
  • Anytime I spend with or on my boys

 

9. Growth – I feel like I am growing…

  • Anytime I learn something
  • Anytime I build a better psychology
  • Anytime I make something better
  • Anytime I make good use of a resource

 

10. Faith – I feel faith…

  • Anytime I work on a difficult goal that I know I can accomplish
  • Anytime I feel a connection to a higher power
  • Anytime I know that All I need is within me now…

 

11. Creativity – I feel creative….

  • Anytime I build something
  • Anytime I give a presentation
  • Anytime I step out of the box and think new thought
  • Anytime I build or create anything

 

 

New Moving Away Values

 

1. Rejection – Only if I were to consistently believe in the illusion that someone can reject me, instead of realizing that no one can make me feel rejected but me.

 

2. Unloved - Only if I were to consistently believe in the illusion that I can feel loved by anyone, when the truth is I will always have the love inside of me.

 

3. Unworthy - Only if I were to consistently focus on the false belief that I could ever be unworthy, instead of realizing I’ve already made great contributions, and I know many more will come.

 

4. Regret – Only if I were to consistently focus on some rule of mine that I have broken, instead of understanding that I’m in control of my actions, and regret is a signal for me to check my rules.

 

5. Fear of Failure – Only if I were to consistently focus on the false belief that I can fail, instead of realizing that each failure is a stepping stone on the road to my ultimate successful destiny.

 

6. Insignificant – Only if I were to consistently focus on the illusion that someone can make me feel insignificant, instead of realizing that I am significant, and that I can create significance instead of me anytime.

 

7. Hurt - Only if I were to consistently focus on the false belief that I could ever be hurt by someone, instead of realizing that all hurt come from me, and I can hear it as a cry for help from others.

 

8. Worry - Only if I were to consistently believe in the illusion that worrying about anything can make a difference, instead of realizing that I should only focus on setbacks as they occur, and then learn from them